Young people in the democratic South African black neighborhoods are generally referred to as a “lost generation”. This is mainly attributed to African youth’s obsession to western culture, but who is to blame. As a young person myself I can partly agree that indeed we are a lost generation, all thanks to our parents and elders (the losing generation) in communities in which we grew up at.
For instance, as a black child you are told by an elder not to eat while standing and you ask why? Here is the typical response which creates more questions than answers: “Do not ask me why, that is just how it is my child”. It is human nature that no one accepts as true something with no proper or satisfactory reasoning. It is just impossible!
When African families conduct traditional rituals, young family members are normally sidelined from some “adults and the wise only” secret meetings. Then as a young one you join a charismatic church in trying to make sense of the world and in these churches everything is done in an open and automatically one finds comfort, join in and believe in their teachings. Before you know it, you are labeled the lost generation because you “do not respect African customs.” The people who are on your case are the very same as those who refuse to provide you answers for your questions on African customs.
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Typical of 21st century African youth, most black parents hate tatoos. Image supplied. |
Middle class black families usually enroll their children in former Model C English schools and such pupils are freely allowed to speak English even at home, in fact in most cases parents themselves proudly communicate to their children in English. This obviously prepares a lost generation of poor vernacular speakers and parents are to blame.
It is a rare case for African parents to spend just a minute in the table with their kids, just to share wisdom and some important pointers on African traditions. Confusingly the offspring is a lost generation when the welcoming western culture feeds the youth with all sorts of what is “immorality” in the black culture.
African languages in our land are at a “critically endangered” stage of extinction and black culture is fast losing ground. Yes, black youth is a “lost generation” and the western culture is making huge inroads and offering the warmest reception to this group of lost generation . Thanks to our elders for permitting us to get lost right in their watch.
It starts on top and goes right down to the bottom. Our elders need to change attitude and accept that this is the globalization era and as young Africans we are exposed to too much that we end up getting confused. It is their responsibility to protect African culture by explicitly educating the youth as future citizens about Africanism. With that phenomenon, black youth can without a doubt embrace and celebrate African traditions in today’s global culture.